讲道德是长期贪婪

Naval Ravikant 2019-06-26

讲道德是长期贪婪

如果你做公平交易,从长远来看你会得到回报


Nivi: 在”如何致富”的推文风暴中,你列出了建议人们学习的东西,比如编程、销售、阅读、写作和算术。其中一个被剪掉的项目是道德,你也建议人们学习。

Naval: 我本来打算把它作为对那些认为赚钱是邪恶的、唯一赚钱方式是作恶的人的让步。但后来我意识到道德不一定是你要学习的东西。它是你要思考的东西——也是你要做的事情。

道德不是你要学习的东西;而是你要做的事情

每个人都有个人的道德准则。我们获得道德准则的方式因人而异。这不像我可以给你指一本教科书。我可以给你指一些罗马或希腊的文本,但这不会突然让你变得有道德。

黄金法则:“己所不欲,勿施于人。“或者有纳西姆·塔勒布的白银法则,即”己所不欲,勿施于人。“

信任带来复合关系

一旦你在商界待得足够久,你就会意识到商业中有多少是关于信任的。这是因为你想要复利。你想与值得信赖的人长期合作,而不必重新评估每一次讨论或不断提防。

随着时间的推移,你会倾向于与某些类型的人合作。同样,那些人也会倾向于与其他有道德的人合作。

讲道德吸引其他长期参与者

事实证明,讲道德是一种自私的必要条件。你想讲道德,因为它会吸引网络中的其他长期参与者。他们想与有道德的人做生意。

如果你建立了讲道德的名声,人们最终会付钱给你,只是为了通过你做交易。你的参与将验证交易并确保它们完成;因为你不会参与低质量的东西。

从长远来看,讲道德是有回报的——但这是非常长远的。短期来看,不讲道德是有回报的,这就是为什么这么多人选择这样做。这是短期贪婪。

讲道德是长期贪婪

你可以讲道德,仅仅因为你是长期贪婪的。我甚至可以基于长期自私的想法为道德的不同部分勾勒一个框架。

例如,你想诚实,因为它让你头脑清晰。你不希望脑子里运行两个线程,一个是你说的谎言——现在必须跟踪——另一个是真相。如果你诚实,你一次只需要想一件事,这释放了心理能量,让你思维更清晰。

此外,通过诚实,你拒绝了那些只想听漂亮谎言的人。你把那些人从你的网络中赶走。有时这很痛苦,尤其是对朋友和家人;但从长远来看,你为那些喜欢你本来样子的人创造了空间。这是诚实的自私理由。

如果你做公平交易,从长远来看你会得到回报

谈判提供了另一个很好的例子。如果你是那种总是试图为自己争取最好交易的人,你会赢得很多早期交易,感觉会很好。

另一方面,一些人会认识到你总是在争夺,行为不公平,他们会倾向于避开你。随着时间的推移,这些人最终会成为网络中的交易撮合者。人们去找他们寻求公平对待或弄清楚什么是公平的。

如果你与人做公平交易,短期内你不会得到回报。但从长远来看,每个人都想与你打交道。你最终成为一个市场中心。你拥有更多信息。你拥有信任。你拥有声誉。从长远来看,人们最终会通过你做交易。

很多智慧涉及认识到你行为的长期后果。你的时间跨度越长,你在周围每个人眼中就显得越明智。


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Being Ethical Is Long-Term Greedy

If you cut fair deals, you will get paid in the long run


Nivi: In the “How to Get Rich” tweetstorm you listed things you suggest people study, like programming, sales, reading, writing and arithmetic. One of the items that ended up on the cutting-room floor was ethics, which you also suggest people study.

Naval: I was going to put that out as a concession to people who believe making money is evil and that the only way to make it is to be evil. But then I realized ethics is not necessarily something you study. It’s something you think about—and something you do.

Ethics isn’t something you study; it’s something you do

Everyone has a personal moral code. Where we get our moral code differs for everybody. It’s not like I can point you to a textbook. I can point you to some Roman or Greek text, but that’s not suddenly going to make you ethical.

There’s the Golden Rule: “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” Or there’s Nassim Taleb’s Silver Rule, which is, “Don’t do unto others what you don’t want them doing unto you.”

Trust leads to compounding relationships

Once you’ve been in business long enough, you will realize how much of it is about trust. It’s about trust because you want to compound interest. You want to work with trustworthy people for long periods of time without having to reevaluate every discussion or constantly look over your shoulder.

Over time you will gravitate to working with certain kinds of people. Similarly, those people will gravitate to working with other ethical people.

Being ethical attracts other long-term players

Acting ethically turns out to be a selfish imperative. You want to be ethical because it attracts other long-term players in the network. They want to do business with ethical people.

If you build a reputation for being ethical, people eventually will pay you just to do deals through you. Your involvement will validate deals and ensure they get done; because you wouldn’t be involved with low-quality stuff.

In the long run, being ethical pays off—but it’s the very long run. In the short run, being unethical pays off, which is why so many people go for it. It’s short-term greedy.

Being ethical is long-term greedy

You can be ethical simply because you’re long-term greedy. I can even outline a framework for different parts of ethics just based on the idea of long-term selfishness.

For example, you want to be honest because it leaves you with a clear mind. You don’t want two threads running in your head, one with the lies you tell —and now have to keep track of—and the other with the truth. If you are honest, you only have to think about one thing at a time, which frees up mental energy and makes you a clearer thinker.

Also, by being honest you’re rejecting people who only want to hear pretty lies. You force those people out of your network. Sometimes it’s painful, especially with friends and family; but over the long term you create room for the people who like you exactly the way that you are. That is a selfish reason to be honest.

If you cut fair deals, you will get paid in the long run

Negotiations offer another good example. If you’re the kind of person who always tries to get the best deal for yourself, you will win a lot of early deals and it will feel very good.

On the other hand, a few people will recognize that you’re always scrabbling and not acting fairly, and they will tend to avoid you. Over time those are the people who end up being the dealmakers in the network. People go to them for a fair shake or to figure out what’s fair.

If you cut people fair deals, you won’t get paid in the short term. But over the long term, everybody will want to deal with you. You end up being a market hub. You have more information. You have trust. You have a reputation. And people end up doing deals through you in the long run.

A lot of wisdom involves realizing long-term consequences of your actions. The longer your time horizon, the wiser you’re going to seem to everybody around you.


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